Heading for Divorce?

 Posted on December 00,0000 in Divorce

Over the course of any marriage, spouses will fight. It is a fact. However,  the subject of those fights and the ways in which spouses choose to fight (or not fight) can dictate whether or not a fight is but a precursor to divorce. A fight does not have to signal the end of a relationship, especially if it is about something that a couple can work through with some effort and common sense.

What Are You Fighting About?

Difference pertaining to the handling of finances frequently are the cause of fights between spouses. However, not all fights are about mishandling the checking account. Here’s a list of things couples fight about that might seem minor, but have proven to create major battles in some relationships.

• The remote control: Spouses have been known to quarrel over who holds the remote, how loud is the TV and what to watch. Perhaps this is why many homes have more than one television set.
• Binge TV cheating: On a related note, some find it rather irritating when one partner views ahead in a series that the two have been watching together.
• Shoes on or shoes off: You like when everyone removes their shoes upon entering your home, but your spouse does not care. Who is right? Does it matter? It might, but you can work it out.
• Controlling the thermostat:  A matter of a couple of degrees, whether from the furnace in the winter of the AC unit in the summer, has been known to really send couples over the edge.
• Saturdays in the fall: Heaven help the couple when one graduated from State and the other from Tech. When those teams meet on the gridiron and overly enthusiastic fan might really get under someone’s skin.
• Dirty laundry and/or wet towels: Do you hang up your wet towels? Do you hit the hamper with your socks and shorts? This issue has been known to bring out the worst in people.

While these may seem trivial, a lack of common courtesy and consideration for your spouse can be a sign that this marriage is not what you thought it would be when it started.

An Experienced DuPage County Divorce Attorney Can Make All The Difference

If the time comes when you feel a divorce is the only way to proceed, when no other option will work, it is important to find a divorce lawyer who understands that which you are about to experience. Rely on an Illinois divorce lawyer with the knowledge, resources, and compassion you need to see your divorce through from start to finish. The Law Offices of Matthew M. William, P.C., will give your divorce the attention it deserves and ensure you receive everything which you are entitled to when a final divorce decree is delivered. Contact their offices to schedule an initial consultation.

 

Sources:

http://www.msn.com/en-us/lifestyle/family-relationships/30-silly-fights-every-couple-has-had-at-least-once/ss-AAsCCVU?ocid=spartandhp