Tips to Make Your Divorce as Painless as Possible

 Posted on December 00,0000 in Divorce

There is no way around it - getting a divorce will be difficult at times, stressful during the divorce proceedings and emotionally demanding during most of the process. A divorce is the legal separation of you and your spouse, but it goes much deeper than that - divorce is also the emotional separation of you and your spouse and the end of your relationship. It is only normal for you to go through a mourning period, but there are things that you can do to make your divorce go as smoothly as possible, ultimately saving you a lot of pain and distress.

1. Think of Your Divorce as a Business Transaction

Though it will be difficult, emotionally distancing yourself from your relationship will help you immensely. Marriage is just a legal contract that you entered into with your spouse - now you are getting out of that contract, which is the divorce. Try to treat the process like you would treat a severing of a business relationship - your heart will thank you.

2. Figure Out What You Need and What You Want From the Divorce

Figuring out what you want versus what you actually need out of the divorce can help you make some difficult decisions. Make a list of major assets and decide which ones you cannot live without and which ones you would like to have. Knowing what you actually want will be helpful when it is time for negotiations.

3. Know What You are Entitled to

Going along with Number 2, you should also know what you are entitled to. In the state of Illinois, courts practice what is called the equitable division of assets, rather than equal division. This means that you will not necessarily get half of everything, but you will get the portion of assets that you deserve, based on a number of factors that the courts look at.

4. Take Care of Yourself

During a divorce, you are juggling multiple things at once, but you might forget the most important thing of all - you. In order to come out of the divorce on top, you should remember to take care of yourself, both physically and mentally. Make sure you exercise a few times a week and drink plenty of water. Studies have shown that exercise is an excellent stress reliever and it is always a good idea to stay hydrated. It is not a bad idea to take time to see a counselor or family therapist during this time, either. Talking with someone who is trained in divorce can help you make sense of your situation.

5. Contact a DuPage County Divorce Attorney

Perhaps one of the most important things you could do to make your divorce as painless as possible is by contacting an Aurora divorce lawyer. By getting in touch with the Law Office of Matthew M. Williams, P.C., you can have peace of mind knowing you are being represented by a lawyer who has more than 15 years of experience in family law. To schedule a consultation, call the office at 630-409-8184.

 

Sources:

https://www.forbes.com/sites/michaelkay/2018/01/09/alleviate-divorce-pain-avoiding-common-mistakes/#6be3cc04604b

https://www.forbes.com/sites/heatherlocus/2018/06/01/5-crucial-steps-to-make-your-divorce-less-painful/#32d319ee612d